why wont you care about your appearance?
I have been married for two years and I really love my husband but he is making me sick and I want to have a baby I'm not sure if I should considerning when I look at him I want to smack him in his face. We met in college and he was my dream man he was a star football player and great friend.
now that we are older and married he has gained almost 100 pounds {It happened so slowly i really didn't notice till one day i just looked around and was like what the hell who are you} Every time i metion it he gets upset and tells me he will go to the gym on his own time and he recently has been having bad back problems the doctor told him it was because of his weight and he still won't do anthing about it.
man drinks a 2 liter of soda and bottle of juice a day. I told him if he love me and wanted to be there for us and our future family he would take care of his self and he says he does love me but he is just not ready I think that is a bunch of crap he is affecting other people beside himself by having all this weight. I feel like he is just being lazy and sloppy he will sit in front of the TV four hours he could take an hour and go the gym. I even paid for one and he never used it. He was a football player i don't understand it and i'm finding it hard to be patient and supportive. He was a sexy in shape big guy about 300 but toned and sexy and now he is 400 pounds and his stomach pushes right through his shirts.
his teeth are starting to get some stuff on the bottom and I asked him to go the dentist and once again he says I will but in my own time this has been a year i have been saying this and I am so frustrated I'm tired of argueing about his appearance and I don't know what to do I really want to have a baby but is it smart because he is getting on my nerve can anyone help. I still love him and we are great friends but I can't take this i am in very good shape and try my best to eat right should i just leave him because i feel now he is just being disrespectful








