Help!Married without benefits.?
so back in Feb07 I married this girl for what seemed like a good idea. we were really clicking and she seemed to have very high health insurance so I married her and put her and her kids on my insurance. a few months later I caught her daughter trying to go out with some overage boys and long story short it was turned around and i was the bad guy. we broke it off. we were suppose to in agreement file for divorce.
when this happened she just said she was in no hurry. i got some dental bills up until last month. so they were using my benifits.
with the new year i would file my taxes married, today she is telling me she sent the divorce papers back in july i didnt get them and now she is in a rush to divorce.
do you think i should do? i am in no hurry. we never lived together.
i go sign tomorrow like a good boy or let her have me served? makes no difference to me but need some insight here. i was ready to divorce back in june but she made no contact and i surely didnt want any trouble. so i just waited so before i received any answers i replied to the email to go ahead and have me served.
after readingall your comments i sent another saying i would be there and sign the papers tomorrow morning at the county courthouse.
i like the falling in love one.
are right but it seemed like the right thing to do at the time. i learned a lot from it though.
try to fix people.








